Over the last several weeks, we learned there are 4 sensory types, one of which we each use as a default while under stress: 1: tonal; 2: visual; 3: kinesthetic; 4: digital. See the Energies of Love book for in-depth exploration. When one is in the midst of an argument, the default mode will prevail and any attempt to convince the person to perceive the situation in another mode will fail. So, that means if we learn our own sensory type, and that of those close to us, we will begin to communicate in an effective and loving way. This is the energy of love. By interacting with each other’s’ energies, loving energy is shared.
Today we explore the last of the sensory types—the digital (in balance the most kind, calm and rational person 
who is able to access and organize vast amounts of information while at the same time create a perfect solution for any problem). This person thinks with perfect logic, knowing that she/he is always right, since, after all, who can dispute linear thinking. In distress, the digital will rationally explain all the reasons why her/his approach is accurate, being completely un-emotive, even if loved ones may be crying. Here is the vignette. Eleanor and Edwin have been living together for 35 years. On the way home from the gym, Edwin is rear-ended by a woman who was texting. Edwin’s neck is hurt, the police arrive, the car is damaged and he is very upset, seeking Eleanor’s support. Oh, and Edwin was driving Eleanor’s BMW convertible—her pride and joy. When Edwin, who is now limping and holding his neck, tells Eleanor, she immediately asks that he explain every step that happened, that he needs to call the insurance company right away, that she will call the doctor and notify the police to press charges due to the woman’s texting; that he should sit down and write a chronology so they can give the same accounting to everyone. She rationally explains that she has reminded him in the past to be careful while driving her car, explaining all this with precision and rationale ease. Edwin approached Eleanor to hold her, seeking comfort and Eleanor pats him on the cheek, telling him they have must attend to business.
Solution? Both ask “Do you Mean?” after doing the Blow-out; zip-up and hook-up exercise (part of the 5 Minute Routine) Try the exercise in the column “Hand to Heart with Partner Creates Bond” (5 weeks ago) There are many more solutions in the book….. Understanding our loved ones energies (plus our own), changes all our lives..
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